As a guy, who needs to get back to dating, the all idea is not that horrible.. what is horrible is the "blind date" concept.

I HATE blind dates.. call me calculated, but I prefer to know (at least) how the girl looks like, and sounds like, before I commit to a date.

I've been to several blind dates, and each time was a disaster or a mere failure.

I guess that's why the internet as a medium to meet girls - suits me like a glove. I can get to know the girl before we actually meet. It may take the edge off the "surprise" factor, but I rather have nice surprises at my birthday than surprises that resemble "the predator" smiling in front of me at a dinner table..

In my eyes, even though most girls (and some of the guys as well) would claim they go for the inside, the character, and so on (before looking at the packaging) - they rarely give the time of day if they don't like the appearance of the potential date.

I don't hide it: I look at appearance first. There, I said it!

I want the girl to look more than "passable". I want to be attracted to her in more than one level, but the first level must be physical. If there is no physical attraction, any other attraction would not be strong enough to hold a lasting relationship. Remember, that's an "In my eyes" statement.

I do believe in love in first sight, and I also believe in love that builds over time. But my rule still apply to both scenarios.

Now, give me some insights people! I'd love to read your feedback and opinions.. :)